Who I Am

 by Cheryl Merrick

Am I a wife who spends 

her time and energies

endlessly waiting on "her man"?

No, but I do endlessly give

support and encouragement.

Am I a mom who hovers 

over my children 

always "caring" for them? 

Not really, but I am always there

to cheer them on as they

learn to solve their problems.

Am I a permissive grandmother

ever spoiling my grandchildren?

No, but I'll be there

to teach them and show them

how to live and be happy.

Am I the "sweet" helpful neighbor

ever ready with sympathy and cookies?

Actually, I'm not,

for though I feel deep compassion

it never obscures my view of your

immense potential. 

Am I a friend who is always there

to take "your side" against the world?

No, but I am willing to risk our relationship

by gently telling you the truth 

so you can grow.

Am I a person who has faith in you;

whose love will always be there;

and who will always encourage you

to become the best you can be?

Yes, that's who I am.